The ABC of LoVeA: Affection-Acceptence-ArgumentsB: Buoyancy-Battle-BelieveC: Comunication-Compatability-Compensation
Affection: it rules almost every relationship. Untill n unless you are not fond of a person you cannot get along with him/her. Also it is not only importanto to love but showering your love and your affection is equally important. When it comes to sprayingyour affection, leave no stone unturned.
Acceptence: accept your partner's imperfection. Remember no one is perfect. Ignore little things. Benjamin Franklin has well put it "if you can bear your own faults, then why not a fault in your partner". Admire your spouse for what he or she is?
Arguments: if you think you are doing fine by avoiding arguments then sorry to say you are wrong. Instead of bottling up your emotions go ahead and have an argument.. A healthy argument always helps. Make you partner realize what n how you feel, it will surely help to resolve certain problems.
Buoyancy: cheer up your partner when he or she is feeling low, or even otherwise. Please your spouse the way you would like him or her to please you. Frevour obviously keeps one rocking.
Battle: for this one I shall simply put forward Amm Landers' words "all married couples should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest-never vicious or cruel. It is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marrige the principle of equal partnership."
Believe: as in trust. It is the main ground on which a marrige is built. Have faith in your spouse and never ever hurt his/her trust. Ni marriage is a happy marriage, if it does not have the basic element called belief.
Communication: many couples avoid talking over certain problems. They feel discussing a particular problem will only add up to more problems and maka the matter more worse. Whereas the contrary is ture , talking through situations only helps you to build a stronger bond.
{copied from TOI, just thought you'd like to know}
